Ulaliki: Mmene Mungakulire Kwambiri Pokondana Wina ndi Mnzake
Kodi ife monga mpingo timaphunzira bwanji kukondana moona mtima? Kodi timakulitsa bwanji chikhalidwe mu mpingo wathu momwe mwachibadwa timakhala ndi chikondi chaubale ndi chaulongo kwa wina ndi mzake? Kodi mpingo woterewu umawoneka bwanji? Mu chikhalidwe chathu cha Azungu, chikhalidwe chathu chaumwini- timakhala bwanji mpingo wodzaza ndi anthu achikondi m'mitima mwathu kwa wina ndi mzake? pa Kodi tikudziwa kuti kusiyana kwa mpingo wotero kumaoneka bwanji, sichoncho ife? Tamva za nkhani zowopsya za kugawanika kwa matchalitchi. Tamva za okhulupirira akugawanitsa mpingo pa mtundu wa kapeti, ndi mbali yanji piyano iyenera kupita. Tamva za okhulupilira akugawa mipingo pazaphunziro lazaumulungu - ziphunzitso ndi zikhulupiliro zokha. Ndikhoza kunena kuti mipingo yamtunduwu sadziwa tanthauzo la kukhala ndi chikondi chaubale ndi alongo kwa wina ndi mzake, sadziwa tanthauzo la chikondi (kukondana) wina ndi mzake. pa Chabwino abusa, ife sitiri mtundu wotere wa mpingo- ndipo ine ndingavomereze ife sitiri mtundu wotere wa mpingo- osachepera osati pa mlingo umenewo. Koma kodi timakondanadi? Kodi tili ndi chikondi chimene mungachisonyeze kwa mbale (mbale kapena mlongo), kodi muli ndi chikondi choterocho kwa aliyense muno mu mpingo wapamalo uno? Tsopano, mwina mumachitira anthu ena mu mpingo uno. Koma, mwinamwake pali anthu mu mpingo uno amene mwawaona kwa zaka ndi zaka komabe iwo kwenikweni akadali alendo kwa inu. Simukuwadziwa kwenikweni ndipo mwina simuwakonda kwenikweni. pa Tangodzifunsani funso ili- ndi liti pamene Mulungu adalemetsa mtima wanu kuti wina mu mpingo uno amupempherere mowona mtima momwe angathere. Kodi munayamba mwapempherapo choncho kwa munthu wina mumpingo uno? Ndi anthu angati mu mpingo uno mwawapempherera motere? Kodi mukuganiza kuti n’chifukwa chiyani zili choncho? pa Tsopano, sindikunena kuti uwu ndi mpingo wopanda chikondi- ndendende mosiyana. Mumandidabwitsa nthawi zonse ndi chikondi chomwe mumasonyeza- makamaka pankhani ya kupatsa. Koma, kodi ife tayimilira mu chikondi chathu? Kodi chikondi chathu kwa wina ndi mnzake chikukulirakulira? Kodi kwenikweni Mulungu amafuna kuti tizikondana bwanji? Kodi timapanga bwanji chikhalidwe choterocho mu mpingo wathu? Kodi simukufuna kukhala mbali ya mpingo umene ukupambana nthawi zonse ndikukula m’chikondi? pa Ndikuganiza kuti Paulo akuuza mpingo wa Atesalonika momwe ungachitire chimodzimodzi mu 1 Atesalonika 4:9-12. pa Mwachidule ndikufuna kuti mukumbukire nkhani ya mbali iyi ya kalata ya Paulo. pa 1 Atesalonika 3:10 KJV 1900 10 Usiku ndi usana ndi kupemphera kopitilira muyeso kuti tiwone nkhope yanu, ndi kukwaniritsa chopereŵera pa chikhulupiriro chanu? Bwanji? pa 1 Atesalonika 4:2 KJV 1900 2 Pakuti mudziwa malamulo amene tidakupatsani mwa Ambuye Yesu. pa Mndandanda woyamba wa malamulo amene Paulo anawakumbutsa akugwirizana ndi lingaliro la kuyeretsedwa mu vv. 3-8. pa 1 Atesalonika 4:3 KJV 1900 3 Pakuti ichi ndi chifuniro cha Mulungu, kuyeretsedwa kwanu, kuti mudzipatule dama; pa Tsopano, Paulo akupita ku mutu wa chikondi mu vv. 9-12. pa Paulo analembera Atesalonika kuwalimbikitsa kupitirizabe kukula m’chikondi chawo kwa wina ndi mnzake. pa Okondedwa, ifenso tiyenera kupitirizabe kukula m’chikondi chathu kwa wina ndi mnzake monga mpingo wapamalo. pa Kodi timachita bwanji zimenezi? pa Kodi nthawi zonse timakulitsa bwanji chikondi chathu kwa wina ndi mnzake? pa Paulo akutisonyeza mfundo zitatu za choonadi zimene tiyenera kukhulupirira ndi kuzigwiritsa ntchito tsiku ndi tsiku ngati tikufuna kupitirizabe kukula m’chikondi chathu kwa wina ndi mnzake. pa I. Ngati titi tikule mochuluka m’chikondi chathu kwa wina ndi mnzake tiyenera kuphunzitsidwa nthawi zonse ndi Mulungu kukondana wina ndi mnzake (vv. 9-10a) pa 1 Atesalonika 4:9–10 KJV 1900 9 Koma kunena za chikondi cha pa abale, sikufunika kuti ndikulembereni, pakuti inu nokha mwaphunzitsidwa ndi Mulungu kuti mukondane wina ndi mnzake. 10 Mwandimomwene, imwe musacita pyenepi kuna abale onsene a ku Masedhonya onsene. pa A. Chikondi cha pa abale kwa wina ndi mzake ndi chotulukapo cha kuphunzitsidwa ndi Mulungu kukondana wina ndi mzake (v. 9) pa 1 Atesalonika 4:9 KJV 1900 9 Koma kunena za chikondi cha pa abale, sikufunika kuti ndikulembereni, pakuti inu nokha mwaphunzitsidwa ndi Mulungu kuti mukondane wina ndi mnzake. pa 9 Tsopano za chikondi cha pa abale mulibe kusowa kuti wina akulembereni; pakuti mwaphunzitsidwa ndi Mulungu kukondana wina ndi mzake, pa Ndimaona kuti izi ndizodabwitsa zomwe Paulo ananena- pamutu wochitirana chikondi chaubale ndi alongo- SINDIFUNIKA KUKUUZA CHILICHONSE! pa Izi zikutanthauza kuti mpingo wa Atesalonika unali wathanzi, unali mpingo wopita patsogolo moti okhulupirira onse anali ndi m’bale ameneyu monga chikondi kwa okhulupirira ena onse mu mpingowo. Panalibe kudina kapena magawano kapena mikangano kapena mikangano! Paulo anati- mukuchita bwino kwambiri kotero kuti sindiyenera kukuuzani kalikonse! Zimenezi n’zochititsa chidwi. Ndipo ndi wapadera! |